Friday, August 8, 2008

PSYCHO's Logic & Affection

I've been reading kinda quite lots of book article about the BGR.
Of course, It includes the differences of two different person, male & female.
As usual, most said that guys are more using their logical sense in understanding and dealing with their environment; girls will prefer to dealing things with their gift of nature, the affection.

Affection can said to the females strength.
With their strong feelings with their environment, they often have the ability to connect or bond with the environment.
With or without using the logical thinking (usually known as brain), they somehow easily not bonded with the environment, but information from their unconscious is easily retrieved.
In this case, they usually easily sense something wrong especially dangers among things that are bonded with them, such as the family members, their beloved, their living surroundings, and such.
In simple, affection is females natural ability in surviving especially in this competitive society.

However, this gift of nature can somehow always their biggest weakness, especially in this society.
Seen ancient times, the females are to labeled as weaklings for the limited physical strength; while males are known as the leaders, the chief, the hero in any context due to their ability of physical strength.
But in this 21st era, guys still using their natural ability - logical thinking, to survive in different working fields.
As the guys lack of their sense of affection bonding with others, they often communicate what is in their mind rather than the bond they connected with others.
Among the groups of guys, this method often work for them; but when things comes into the mixture of both genders, this method don't seems work quite well.
Women easily get offended when their bond which they connected is being disconnect, as it often did by the communication of the guys.
As the guys often speak what they mean or in their minds, it somehow can offend the emotion behind the women which are hidden deep down where logical sense is totally useless.

Is emotion a good thing or not.
It really depends.
Emotion is the very things that connect human to human, maybe one day with aliens.
But before the days come, will emotion be the trigger of the distinction of the genders... That'll be horrible...

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