PSYCHO's暗恋

暗恋真的好凄凉。
明明是如此的深爱，却要装作若无其事；
明明是如此的关心，却要装作毫不在乎；
明明是如此的思念，却要装作心无挂碍；
暗恋的人真的很会装戏，他们是天生的伪装者，几乎可以骗过所有的人。

本以为同样可以骗过自己，却突然发现自己早就识破了自己的谎言。
也许这一切听起来很滑稽，但暗恋人何常又不是呢？
暗恋的人本以为自己会很坚强，但他们的内心却是如此的脆弱。
暗恋的人本以为自己可以祝她幸福，但这个祝福是如此的勉强。

终于……终于有勇气向她表白时，她却很久都没有回复，
多年后，也许我们以为已经忘掉他，却发现自己的眼睛已经充满了泪水。

暗恋人往往会面对这样的结局，明明是最纯粹的爱，却要永远埋在心底。
或许，暗恋的人永远也不会失恋，但暗恋这种滋味真的要比失恋好么？
如果说失恋是天崩地裂，那么我想失恋就如同细水长流，慢慢的吞噬你的心灵……
暗恋的就如同影子一般，时时不肯离开你。乌云出现的时候，也许你可以远离他，但当乌云消失的时候，那个影子就又找到你，他就像老朋友一样，总是能找到你。渐渐的你习惯了这个老朋友。你本想就这样走下去，可你又结识了思念这个新朋友，于是，我们发现自己变得深沉了。

暗恋的人往往会很伤感，他们总是充满幻想，希望可以等到奇迹的发生，但直到他们消亡，却仍没等到那天。他们喜欢伤感的音乐，也许只有在那种音乐中，他们才能找到自我，才能得到一丝安慰。时间长了，暗恋的人也许会希望自己可以忘掉她，但却爱得更深，更醇，更凄凉……
暗恋那种感觉就?

原来暗恋也很快乐至少不会毫无选择；
为何从不觉得感情的事多难负荷不想；
占有就不会太坎坷不管你的心是谁的；
我也不会受到挫折只想做个安静的过客…….

摘自《文章阅读网》

PSYCHO's It's Not Easy to be Me

I like this song. Kinda meaningful to me.
I always wanna be different, different from others, different form the norm.
But it seems to make ma become an outcast, isolated.
Different can be hero or zero. Which am I?

Being different is not easy.
You need an absolute endurance to endure the misunderstanding of the world, to endure the naive of own self, to endure the tears,to endure the sacrifices, to endure the dream that can't be realized.

Either HERO or ZERO,

IT'S NOT EASY TO BE ME.

PSYCHO's Logic & Affection

I've been reading kinda quite lots of book article about the BGR.
Of course, It includes the differences of two different person, male & female.
As usual, most said that guys are more using their logical sense in understanding and dealing with their environment; girls will prefer to dealing things with their gift of nature, the affection.

Affection can said to the females strength.
With their strong feelings with their environment, they often have the ability to connect or bond with the environment.
With or without using the logical thinking (usually known as brain), they somehow easily not bonded with the environment, but information from their unconscious is easily retrieved.
In this case, they usually easily sense something wrong especially dangers among things that are bonded with them, such as the family members, their beloved, their living surroundings, and such.
In simple, affection is females natural ability in surviving especially in this competitive society.

However, this gift of nature can somehow always their biggest weakness, especially in this society.
Seen ancient times, the females are to labeled as weaklings for the limited physical strength; while males are known as the leaders, the chief, the hero in any context due to their ability of physical strength.
But in this 21st era, guys still using their natural ability - logical thinking, to survive in different working fields.
As the guys lack of their sense of affection bonding with others, they often communicate what is in their mind rather than the bond they connected with others.
Among the groups of guys, this method often work for them; but when things comes into the mixture of both genders, this method don't seems work quite well.
Women easily get offended when their bond which they connected is being disconnect, as it often did by the communication of the guys.
As the guys often speak what they mean or in their minds, it somehow can offend the emotion behind the women which are hidden deep down where logical sense is totally useless.

Is emotion a good thing or not.
It really depends.
Emotion is the very things that connect human to human, maybe one day with aliens.
But before the days come, will emotion be the trigger of the distinction of the genders... That'll be horrible...

PSYCHO's 情场规则

不愿服从情场规则，此情危矣！

情场守则，没有明文规定；个别情侣有自己的一套，双方靠默契而墨守成规。

真心相爱的情侣，或热恋中的情侣，不以守规为苦，也不觉得这就是牺牲，因为爱是无条件投降，我们甘做最幸福的俘虏。


你不愿为他的感受撒走那一班裙下臣，足见你爱他不够，你有二心。与他看戏不必与别人看戏开心，与他吃饭不比与别人吃饭开心，在在证明你心已变而情不在。

突然觉得从前迁就得很幸苦，只因为现在的心不再是从前的心。两情不在愉悦，结束时最好的结局。

相信他会尊重你的决定，因为没有人能与已不尊重自己的人恋爱下去了。你也别把自己看得太重要了，他能一气就几个星期不见踪影，其实已是分手前奏，可能他只是不愿意先提出来。

情侣之间怨言如此之多，还不如分手说句好话，珍重再见。

PSYCHO's 爱很简单

矛盾。复杂。无奈。

然后，就这样擦身而过。

就这样秒秒分分天天年年过去了。

就这样还是一个孤影。

其实，我只想要一段很简单的爱情。像对老夫妻般可以携手走到白发苍苍的那一天，那一个岁月里大家还是深爱着对方，彼此没有忘了当年在上帝面前的承诺。

手牵手完成了半个人生。

那个简单的爱情一直到生命的结束。

因为，爱的原点是简单。

爱很简单

摘自《南洋商报》

PSYCHO's 失恋

没有失恋过的人也许不多。因为，在爱情上“春风得意马蹄疾”的人毕竟太少。
　　
尽管文人们虚构了一个又一个“一见钟情”的美丽故事，但毕竟是虚构。是故事，而把故事当做教科书的人，八成有点傻。
　　
其实，人生的逻辑常常是这样：爱恋因为先于失恋，往往是糊涂的，盲目的，有时甚至是很荒唐的。正如一首歌唱的：“这就是爱，糊里又糊涂；这就是爱，说也说不清楚。”而失恋则一目了然、清晰得多，也只有当可怜兮兮的失恋真的来临时，失恋者才能真正进入“反思”这样一个极理智的层次。他将小心翼翼地论证一番：这究竟是为什么？自然，也只有有了这样一次深刻的反省，失恋者才会对自己对对方以至对世界有了一个深刻的把握。
　　
因此，如果把爱界定为一种“糊涂”，那么失恋肯定是一种“清醒”。
　　
因此，当失恋不期而至时，千万不要悲悲切切，更不要哭天喊地，应当庆贺：感谢对方拒绝了你。不是吗？正因为有了对方的拒绝，你才拥有了再度选择的机会！
　　
正因为有了对方的拒绝，你才重新有了高度的自由。你再也无须为对方牵肠挂肚———如果说失恋是“失”，凭什么不能说失恋也是“得”呢！
　　
惨烈的失恋固然是一种悲哀，但它更是一种摆脱。
　　
不是有个挺不错的说法吗：砸碎镣铐闹革命！失恋就是这样一次最深刻的革命。不是有个挺振奋人心的口号吗：奴隶翻身做主人！失恋就是这样一个翻身的绝好机会。
　　
失恋是什么？是告别糊涂重新走向了理智。既然如此，失恋了怎么办？挺起胸！站直罗！

失恋是一种清醒 - 快乐中文网

PSYCHO's 过期罐头

过期罐头，丢掉。

他无故失踪，你费时追踪；你和他都不再为对方付出一点关怀。这么说，爱情是过期了，丢掉亦无不可。

但也不能随便乱丢。结束关系，至少要尊重当初情意。再怎么不想看他的脸，也给他面子，千万别不辞而别。收拾好行李，约他带外面喝杯茶，恩怨不诉，对错不计，说声珍重再见，各奔前程。

在人生里，我们不忘追求理想，也不断埋葬过去；有得也有失，又悲伤夜游欢乐。埋葬一场失败情事，只是人生里的一个挫折，不要看成是幸福的结束。

绝望是愚者的结论，对人生而言如此，对情场来说亦如是。